Everyday people are spying on us and it’s time we just get over it.  We may not all be famous like Ms. Holmes but everyday people are watching what we are wearing, our body language, our gestures and our spoken word.     The fact is you are spying on other people all the time without them ever knowing it.  Have you ever crossed the street because you didn’t like the person you saw coming towards you.  You just having something in your “gut” that tells you to stay away from this person.   People may be staying away from you for the very same reason.  When you learn how to become a better communicator you can learn how to create an image for yourself that invites people to want to hear and take action from your communication.